What Happens When You Hire a Matchmaker?

If you've thought about working with a matchmaker and stopped because you couldn't picture what you'd be paying for, you're in good company. A lot of people imagine handing over money to a matchmaker and, eventually, the right person appearing, with a blur in the middle they can't make out. That uncertainty keeps a lot of accomplished people from ever making the call.

So let me lay it out, stage by stage.

It starts with a free fifteen-minute call. Not a Zoom, not your full history. A short conversation to cover the basics and, more importantly, to see whether we're a fit. You leave knowing how I work.

Next comes the Date Strategy Coaching Session. One hour, one-on-one, looking at multiple parts of your dating life. This is where we find the main thing that's working against you. Sometimes it's your list, the core values and deal-breakers you have not defined. Sometimes it's your headshots. Sometimes it's the advocates who used to make introductions and have gone quiet. We work on the one piece that will move things most, not all of it at once. You leave that same hour with something specific you can use that day.

Then you reach a crossroads. 

You can take a free, passive spot in my private database, where you're on my radar and I reach out if something fits. 

You can move into ongoing coaching to build your full strategy. 

Or you can step into matchmaking, the full service, where strategy and active match-finding happen together.

I go through the whole process, stage by stage, in this video: https://youtu.be/rchbtBD_Ncg?si=o4Cukn4_jcKwT1l5

And if you'd like to see where you'd fit, the way in is a free fifteen-minute chat: https://calendly.com/shana-curatedconnections/15-minute-chat